Tomorrow morning, before work, I am visiting a nursing home. My husband's aunt lived there for a while. And on Monday, my mother has a doctor appointment. My father said that the doctor will not be happy with my mother's deteriorating health. Mobility issues and pain management will necessitate a move out of the house and into a home. How will the idea of a nursing home be presented? What steps can be taken to help her adjust? What kind of support will my father have? How can we prevent miscommunication? And if feelings are hurt, how can they be healed? How can we move her in the snow and wind? We will need to cope with present issues and others that will arise in the future.
I need to resolve the misunderstanding with my sister. As a friend commented, I should have called her rather than relying on a text. Not very bright on my part. And though we will never see eye to eye, we will always be very different, I need to heal this estrangement. A higher power is in charge and I am instilled with peace. I know there are many rapids in the river, but I also know that my family can handle them together.
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