Removing myself from negativity

I am trying to figure out my options.  At least Thanksgiving dinnner for my husband's side of the family is behind me  now.  The event was "meals on wheels" as we transported turkey and trimmings to my nephew's house.  Very strange working in a foreign kitchen. However we had enough food for 24 people and to date, no one has had the deathly illness that felled ten of us last year.  I have to work at the branch store.  I was not invited to contribute my thoughts to the store set up.  The owner called me into the office remarking that my coworker is the manager and that I am the "consultant."  I dislike the long hours and the conflict between yoga, hapkido and work.  Bossiness and negativity bruises me and  herein lies the biggest problem.  Am thinking of removing myself from the source of bossiness and negativity.  I have thought for a second about Christmas.  Will start with a list and progress from there.