Intensity

Since I can't focus my energy on public relations, marketing and merchandising at the branch flower shop, and I really could care less about the main store, I am going to focus my energy and intensity on hapkido. I will promote to 1st gup in the next few months. My instructor told me today that I need to increase intensity to improve flexibility--to go to the point of pain and even more pain. I get maybe 3 important letters in a year. I've asked my husband to let me open them in my own time. Today I came home from work and he had opened a letter. It makes me want my own apartment. If I tell him that I feel sad when he opens my mail, he will become angry, even tho, to my way of thinking, it is my mail and I should be able to open it when I wish.