Thursday, October 13, 2011

Too Late

My friend passed away, and I didn't read the news until after his viewing and funeral. So hard. I plan to donate in his memory and send a card to his wife. He fought the brave fight for 8 months, such a short period, but the cancer won. I can't stay focused. The master berated and criticized last night, I was a real dummy, with lots on my mind.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

2nd gup


My new color belt. I'm on my way to being a 1st gup and then a black belt.

Hapkido testing

There was so much on TV last evening-the playoffs, football, the premiere of Rosie O'Donnell. I watched some baseball and half of Rosie, and then I drove to the martial arts school to train. I noticed that there were two instructors in hapkido uniforms. Hmmmm. I thought one was going to work one-on-one with the new white belt. Imagine my shock when another student and myself were directed to come and test for our next level. "Ohhhhhhhh..." I moaned. Actually, I'm glad I didn't know I was testing, no time to get all het up about it. The other student and I work together often, so I was able to help him when he had a swiss cheese brain a couple times, and he was supportive of me. Figured as long as we were working as partners, I would take advantage and try to learn and hone the techniques. The testing went fairly well...I can always do better. I am doing the techniques stiff-legged, without bending my knees, so I need to get out of that bad habit. And I am not twisting my torso. Some techniques I am just learning. When I was asked why I I hadn't learned them in the past year, I couldn't answer. For several reasons probably. I thought I was exaggerating that move, but apparently not. I promoted to 2nd gup which means I have to learn the techniques to promote to 1st gup and then promote to first dan or black belt.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Serio comedic

My online friend told me that I write in a serio comedic style. I have decided to transfer that style to my life. That is not to say that I don't know that my nephew is a parapalegic or that my friend's husband is in hospice, or that some folks at work are struggling to make ends meet, or that my adult children are lonely. I am trying to refrain from complaining, to laugh more, to perform RAofKs (random acts of kindness). Yesterday, I was able to donate to my son's playoff fund, sweep and clean up after one of the designers, teach a coworker how to make gift baskets. I felt so GOOD! I think this attitude will hold me in good stead (sorry! cliche!) as I will feel happy most of the time.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Two interesting orders

Late this afternoon, I received a call requesting delivery for today. Since it was so late, I suggested that we deliver tomorrow, Sunday. The customer requested a unique arrangement for tomorrow and another one for Monday! We called in our creative, imaginative designer who made a colorful floral display--hanging amaranthus, snaps, bright roses, orange lilies in a keepsake vase. I could only look at it in amazement! For the gift that we are delivering on Monday, our designer will arrange tropical flowers. I can only imagine how much the sender loves the recipient to send her two beautiful floral arrangements.